We Don’t Know Us cover art by Jason Elijah

Domestic

from We Don’t Know Us

“Domestic” feels like living inside a shared space where something has gone subtly wrong. Familiarity remains, but ease is gone. The song moves through intimacy, confusion, and quiet tension—capturing the strange dissonance of being close to someone while no longer understanding why.

Lyrics

I'm living in your arms and in your mind I said I don't and I know my own is here we found it here we found it I know it's here went out of town hold your hand out forever and I seem to know you better I just find it a little hard to understand why you come in here why you come in here oh it's in your home wear something nice tonight he said oh, she's giving it all so right tonight they just find it hard to unwind sometimes they just find it hard to let lie sometimes and it's a long way always all out of light, light it's over like a line your light's over like a line

This song doesn’t explode—it lingers. It lives in the quiet discomfort of something that should feel like home but doesn’t anymore. The tension is not loud or violent; it’s subtle, almost polite, which makes it harder to name and harder to escape.

There’s a sense of being entangled in someone else’s inner world while losing access to your own. The lines blur between self and other, between presence and absence. What once felt shared now feels dislocated—like standing inside a house that still belongs to you, but no longer feels like yours.

“Domestic” doesn’t resolve that tension. It lets it sit there, unresolved, because that’s how these spaces often feel in real life—no clear ending, no clean break. Just the quiet awareness that something has shifted, and you’re still standing inside it.